Do you wear a blindfold?

I'm truly amazed by people. So many complain about their life, circumstances and usually something, a book, an event, an article or person appears pointing them in a direction, yet most don't respond. They don't read it or don't attend. They walk right past opportunities.

I go to many networking events and I've met quite a few musicians who keep asking how they can get their music heard and placed, they don't know who to talk to or what to do. The panels usually give a pretty clear answer and when speaking to people, I also give them a few good pointers and I'd say 75% of them don't do a damn thing, or they hit up one person, that person doesn't respond or is not interested and they throw in the towel. They never follow up or keep in touch.

Everything takes time. Most importantly EVERYTHING is based on relationships! You can't expect to walk on to a scene and be the top guy/girl in the game. Learn about people, learn about the business, your craft. Be interested in others and keep going, focus on the things you are in control of. Your craft, your appearance, your attitude.


Take your blindfold off and see what's right infront of you! And don't ever come from a place of desperation, be confident, polite and patient.

Take advantage of twitter, facebook and google, upcoming events in your area. Anything we want to know is within our reach. Most importantly, once we have the information, we have to use it, apply it and take action! Build relationships, make yourself visible in whatever field you're in.

Einsteins once said "Nothing Happens Till Something Moves". Turn that engine on and step on the gas and watch the signs along the way! It's all right before your eyes.
We can't blame others for our failures.

To your happiness and success with eyes wide open!
JVB

Bliss!

Ten years have gone by since I've last seen the person I once called my "other half". The person that is the very reason I'm here in the US. The person I've shared thousands of nights, secrets, tears, laughters and drinks with. One of the few people that truly know me. While it's been such a long time it felt like yesterday. I haven't felt this happy and complete in a long time. I am so grateful to have her back in my life and I look forward to many more adventures!

PS: It's time to continue writing " The Adventures of an Illegal Alien".

xXx
JVB

Questions for today

Certain things in life are a one time opportunity. We either take it, cherish and nourish it or ignore it. Before you make a decisions, think carefully what you are about to win or lose.

Are you settling for less?

Are you living up to your own standards and values?

Am I? Question for the day!